_{Change your measures of success.}

_{Success doesn’t have to be measured by what you do, it can be measured by who you show up as every day.}

_{If you are unhappy, dissatisfied, frustrated – change your measures of success.}

_{What success isn’t?}

• _{Winning and it not satisfying you}
• _{Having a degree and not feeling good enough}
• _{Being married for 30 years and feeling alone}
• _{Having money in the bank and not spending it}
• Running a business , providing a product service and employment for all your staff and feeling like you aren’t enough.

Play around with what success actually means to you.  I can’t tell you what that is.  Your measure of success is different from everybody elses.  It’s just that we have been conditioned to be the same.  When I get…… then I’ll be successful. ( ie When I get a house, When I get married, when I have kids, When I get that dream job, When I ….. )

_{Alex from I Fight you Fight – his measure of success was moving his eyes to read the time on the clock after he woke up in bed paralysed at 16 after a rugby accident.}

_{I have changed my measure of success to being able to be calm and relaxed, to be able to choose, to know that I am more than good enough, to have a freedom Friday, to spend time with my kids when I want and the list goes on.  For me it is a feeling and it is about being in the present.}

_{What is it for you?}

_{Want to redefine your measure of success – I’d love to help you – Make a time to speak with me here.}

_{Have a fantastic week ahead!}